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#1 2018-01-12 17:34:23

hardaddyma52
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Registered: 1969-12-31
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S/M play as a powerful way to get intimate w/ another male

where are the creative subs and true DOMS who know how incredible a connection two males can make when things like bondage, spanking, cbtt, ass training and serious levels of power exchange are part of a healthy sexual encounter?  And who is ready to learn more about it?  DAD has been training bottoms for over 40 years how to give and get incredible amounts of pleasure from men using their body??

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#2 2018-01-16 23:01:28

Gnostikos9
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Re: S/M play as a powerful way to get intimate w/ another male

They're all probably watching Xtube videos and jerking off!
Remember that there is a whole generation of cyber-boys who don't socialize in the queer community as much as we did.I know a  cute little 20 yr old pup at work, whom I'd love to tickle and cumcontrol in bondage,who tells me that he and his friends are trying to make the effort to meet up anywhere away from their IPads and PC's.If just meeting-up and socializing live is such an effort,imagine their attitude to the patience and discipline they'd have to invest in BDSM sessions!
Anyway,there ARE boys out there,but they have so many choices to dazzle their fantasies,that reeling them in is like a slow afternoon of fly fishing.
Remember those wonderful books by John Preston,"I Once Had a Master",etc..and Drummer magazine?
I don't mean to rant against anyone,it's just that we live in a vastly more complex world today with the Internet.
Some guys on Xtube upload a few scenes with their subs,and ask for interested boys to contact them for a session.
Hey,thanks for your post,and keep dom-ing!
(Did you know that one of the most famous female dom's in Paris,during the 70's was Catherine Robbe-Grillet,age 75?)

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#3 2018-01-18 09:58:51

hardaddyma52
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Re: S/M play as a powerful way to get intimate w/ another male

Thanks for that insight! And yes, I do remember Drummer magazine! your explanation about where all 'the sub boys have gone' makes it more important than ever to keep the S/M culture alive and well!  There must be other DOMs in here who have solutions for those of us who live in rural areas that do not have clubs, bars and leather events to enjoy!

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#4 2018-03-11 02:27:12

pteridophyte
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Re: S/M play as a powerful way to get intimate w/ another male

Don't have any solution. However I did have more interaction when I had a Recon profile. Seems like that was a more focussed community that also held "real life" meet ups/events. I'm more remote now so gave up the profile. Nice to play sometimes though. There were a few LGBT writers who specialised in BDSM I seem to remember a  leathermen series??

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#5 2018-03-11 05:16:55

b00tster
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Re: S/M play as a powerful way to get intimate w/ another male

There were books like the Leatherman's handbook Vols 1 and 2: https://archive.org/details/leathermanshandb00town
and the Leather Journal: https://www.theleatherjournal.com/
much studied by bottoms wanting to please their Bosses and Sirs.

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